We Could Have Enjoyed Some Family Gardening Today Outside ...

Myla Hillman,

Today I would have loved to share some gardening with you outside. ?We used to garden together in our family home before you were taken from me by your mother and you would love to water the plants. ?You were an expert and I remember eating the?cantaloupe?with you that you watered almost every morning for months. ?Your great grandfather Eugene Hillman and your grandfather Larry Hillman enjoyed their kitchen gardens as well. ?I remember helping both of them with their gardens and spending quality long term time with them while we were doing it. ?I wish that you were able to spend this quality time with me. ?I remember that Eugene would grow many different types of root and leafy?vegetables in the Seattle area and Larry was excellent at growing many?raspberries in Suquamish.

I also want you to know that yesterday, your mothers lawyer said that I felt your mother is trashy. ?She may have grown up in a lower socioeconomic industrial neighborhood in Motherwell, I believe she continues to make harmful decisions about your life by keeping you from the people who you love and need to be with, I know she does not have a lot of education, I do believe some of her friends abuse their kids and others around them, but I do not think your mother is trash. ?I lived with her for many years, I choose to get engaged to her, take her on a helicopter flight, get married to her, take her on a honey moon, and I choose to have you with her. ?I thought that she was a wonderful person who would be a great mother to you. ?I just think she has made a horrible decision to abduct you and continue to hide you from your own father. ?It is no?surprise?that a lawyer who could not even remember his own business cards to give to the court clerk, and a lawyer that can not even spell your name correctly (or his client?s name), would say something this unprofessional and obviously untrue in court.

I only went to court to help you because I was not able to convince your mother to help you spend quality long term time with me after months of trying to work with her. ?You were being bounced around from place to place with people who do abuse their children and I wanted to help you. ?Your mother stole the passports and many other items when she left and said that she was going to take you to the UK, Florida, and other places with out me. ?The court system did give you a few days with me but it has not helped you spend long term time with your parents like a friend and others said it would after 8 months of your money, time, and sacrifice.

Your mother?s lawyer, William (Bill) Gamble, also said that he wanted to ?work something out? but even though I call and message your mother from time to time, I do not receive any communication back. ?I want you to know that working things out involves communication and?negotiation. ?This silent treatment and cold shoulder does not help to come to an agreement that will help you and your family. ??Digging in? and causing harm to your child by abducting and alienating them is child abuse and it is not solved by continuing?to do the same thing. ?Spending your money on unnecessary and unprofessional lawyers, getting convinced to file for divorce, and letting other people who are taking your money make decisions for you is not a smart thing to do at all. ?If someone wants to work something out they need to contact the other party, answer questions, ask questions, and come to a reasonable agreement that works for everyone. ?In your case it would be an agreement that helps you to become healthy and spend time with your family.

I want you to know to be patient but if something is not working you can always be creative and try something new. ?Never give up on your problem though and your problem is that you have not been able to spend long term time with your family like you need to for your own personal development. ?I love you, I will be with you for quality long term time, and my door and my life is open to you.

Your left behind father,

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Gregory Hillman

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Source: http://mylahillman.com/2012/03/27/we-could-have-enjoyed-some-family-gardening-today-outside/

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